Satsang Q and A, part 1

We don't need to fix everything or change everything. All we need to change is the part of us, right, that is interfacing with things. The old way that you have been getting motivated is dying, and the new way of motivation or living hasn't been born yet. I don't recommend that people try to control any of the process.

That's always going to backfire. Just learning to have more of an authentic relationship with your own darkness and your own repressed material. The way that we tend to try to figure out things or know things is both aggressive and controlling.