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Childhood attachment trauma led to my awakening

Name: Childhood attachment trauma led to my awakening
Uploaded: 2026-10-10
Channel: Scott Kalin
Description: Childhood attachment trauma led to my awakening. Scott Kalin, The Form of Emptiness.

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Childhood attachment trauma led to my awakening. So that means that most likely you, I didn't, now I have, but I didn't learn how to regulate my emotions. I was stuck in black and white thinking. I had 12, I was like a serial monogamist, meaning like I had probably, I don't know, 12, you know, year and a half romantic relationships.

None of them were successful. They all ended in the way that they all each other ended because I didn't have this skill set to grieve loss, feel emotion in a healthy, regulated way, and have the ability to deepen trust in complex relationships.