So, you tried to change, right?

So you tried to change, right? And then you get to a point where you've done it so much that you realize that nothing you do will make them happy, right? And then that makes you see that all of the times you kept trying to change through all of the different relationships and moments where you try to please other people, right, was actually in all of those attempts, you knew that it wasn't, you could never make them happy, that it was, you know, fruitless or pointless, the effort. So all the suffering and giving away of your autonomy and your power and, you know, forgetting who you were and not knowing your own shape because you kept changing so much was never going to get you what you wanted, was never going to make them happy.