The grand equalizer

So, it doesn't matter if you're more spiritually evolved than your partner But basically, this idea that, like, if you get if you've reached a certain level of consciousness, then you're always more conscious of people that haven't reached that level or something. Or, like, I can't date somebody or marry somebody that isn't as conscious as I am. So, that's why that's all kind of a load of shit because the only way to measure consciousness is not based in time or historical accolades, but rather the quality of your authentic relationship in the moment, which is always changing.

So, it doesn't matter if you're more spiritually evolved than your partner because they could be have a better authentic relationship with the present moment in this moment than you do, or vice versa. Right. So, it's the grand equalizer, meaning anybody could have a highly authentic relationship to the present moment, and anybody could not. But it does is also paradoxical, but it also is the case that if you have worked very hard, you know, in the right way.

All right. If you've worked very hard in the right way to have an authentic relationship over years and years, then you're more likely in the moment to have one. Right. But not guaranteed.