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Loyal to the wrong things
On loyalty, and the years it can cost you.
What Scott says
if I stay loyal to something that's bad for three years, it really messes everything up. I'm better than I was. I used to be very bad, but I often can commit or pick things that aren't the best for me and be loyal to them. And then, if I stay loyal to something that's bad for three years, it really messes everything up.
If I can catch it, you know, a couple months after I made the decision and then, and then go, okay, well, this is the universe telling me it was the wrong decision. That has helped my life go much better because I don't, A, I don't feel so much pressure when I make a decision because I know that the universe will tell me within a month or two if it's the wrong decision and I can always do something else. But B, it just like it stops that, you know, the pattern compounding.