Fractured desire gets what it wants

But I would argue that if your wanting or your desire is fractured, then you are getting exactly what you want. On the deepest level, is we all just want to stop abandoning ourselves and return to the whole of our being and then fully actualize and live from the wholeness of our being and fully be ourselves. So that's all we want. That's all anyone ever wants.

And then what happens is we get trauma or loss or confusion or unhealthy patterns or transgenerational trauma. And we, as that happens, it fractures the wanting. And then the wanting gets fractured into hundreds and thousands of little different lines of wanting that shoot out of our head and out into the world. You see, and then we don't get what we want, and we get upset because we don't get what we want.

And we go, Well, I don't want this to happen, or I don't want that to happen. But I would argue that if your wanting or your desire is fractured, then you are getting exactly what you want. You are getting the outcome of a fractured desire, right?