Real then, not real now

It was real then It's just not real now. so you know, it's tricky because you're balancing the human perspective, right? And then the spiritual version or perspective. And so when we're using the human version, the key to not suffering is to having the story, whatever story we're believing or living in, as close to accurate to reality as possible.

And the farther away it gets from being accurate, the more we will suffer. Right? So, for example, if you're motivated by to send those emails, like we said in the example before, because you're worried that you're they're going to be unhappy with you, and then you're going to fail at your job, which is to make them happy. That is not real.

Right? That is the story and the role that you learned when you were a kid. It was real then It's just not real now.